222 vs Parlor Social Club

Pricing

222 is priced at $$ (Free app; events typically $30–$60 per experience), while Parlor Social Club comes in at $$$ ($40/month membership fee).

Format & matching

222 uses groups of Small groups, compared to Parlor Social Club’s Varies, and both use algorithm-based matching.

How they work

222: Download the app and complete a detailed personality quiz — it covers your interests, values, social style, and what kind of experiences you're into. 222 uses this to build a 'curation profile' that determines which events you get invited to and who you'll be grouped with. When an experience is available in your city, you'll get an invite — say yes, and you're in. On the night of, you show up to the venue and meet your group. The evening is planned for you: dinner, drinks, a venue, maybe a second stop. All you have to do is show up and be yourself.

Parlor Social Club: Download the app and submit an application. Parlor reviews every applicant to maintain a curated community of creatives, professionals, and tastemakers. Once accepted, you set your interests across culture, business, and health & wellness. The app builds a personalized event calendar — think gallery openings, supper clubs, wellness workshops, and professional mixers — and recommends members you're likely to click with. RSVP to events that catch your eye, connect with other members before or after, and let Parlor handle the curation. The algorithm learns from your feedback to refine your recommendations over time.

What to love

222: No profiles, no DMs, no swiping — removes all the friction and awkwardness of typical social apps. Personality-based matching means you're not just thrown in with random strangers. Full evening experiences (dinner + activity) feel like a real night out, not a forced meetup. All members are vetted before being selected for events. Strong TikTok community and word-of-mouth reputation in major cities.

Parlor Social Club: Rigorous vetting process creates a genuinely high-quality, interesting community. Personalized event calendar means you're not scrolling through irrelevant listings. Spans social, cultural, and professional events — not just one category. Algorithm learns your preferences and improves recommendations over time. Available on both iOS and Android with 159K+ Instagram following indicating real traction.

Reality check

222: iOS only — no Android app available. Limited to a handful of US cities plus Toronto. Event costs add up on top of the free app. You can't choose who you go with — the algorithm decides.

Parlor Social Club: $40/month is steep compared to free alternatives — and that's before event costs. Application-based membership means you might not get in. Only in three US cities right now — limited geographic reach. The exclusive vibe won't appeal to everyone, and it can feel gatekeep-y.

Søren's take

On 222: 222 is one of the more interesting approaches to IRL social I've seen. By removing profiles and messaging entirely, they've eliminated the part of friendship apps that feels most like work. The personality matching and curated evenings mean you show up, meet cool people, and go somewhere fun — all without planning anything. The catch is availability: it's iOS-only and in just a few cities, so if you're not in NYC, LA, SF, or Chicago, you're out of luck for now. If you are, though, it's worth trying at least once.

On Parlor Social Club: Parlor Social Club is for people who want their social life curated the way a good concierge curates a hotel stay. The vetting process is the whole point — it filters for interesting, engaged people, which makes the events genuinely worth attending. The $40/month fee is real money, but if you're the type who spends that on a single cocktail at a members' club, the value proposition makes sense. The main limitation is geography: three cities is a small footprint. If you're in NYC, Miami, or Chicago and want a social life that feels elevated without being pretentious, Parlor is worth the application.