Find Mom Friends
Peanut is essentially Bumble for moms. You create a profile, set your stage of motherhood, and swipe through other women nearby who are going through the same thing. Matches open a chat, and from there you can join group conversations, attend local meetups, or just vent to someone who actually gets it. With over 5 million users, it's the largest dedicated platform for mothers looking to build a village.
How it works
Download the app and create a profile with your name, location, and stage of motherhood — whether you're trying to conceive, pregnant, or raising kids of any age. Set your interests and what you're looking for (advice, playdates, local friends, or just someone to talk to). Peanut shows you other women nearby who match your criteria. Swipe to wave, and if you both wave, you're matched and can start chatting. From there, you can join group conversations on specific topics, participate in community Q&A threads, or set up in-person meetups.
Who it's for
New moms who moved to a new city and don't know anyone with kids. Women going through fertility treatments or pregnancy who want to connect with others in the same boat. Stay-at-home parents craving adult conversation during the week. Any mother who feels like her pre-kid social circle doesn't quite understand her life anymore.
What works
Largest dedicated community for mothers — 5 million+ users means you'll actually find people nearby. Stage-based matching (TTC, pregnancy, newborn, toddler, etc.) connects you with women in the same chapter. Swipe mechanic feels natural and low-pressure for introverted new moms. Group discussions and Q&A threads provide real support beyond just friend-matching. Selfie verification and moderation create a genuinely safe space.
What doesn't
Heavily focused on motherhood — not useful if you're looking for general adult friendships. Free tier is limited; seeing who waved at you and premium filters require Peanut Plus. Some areas have sparse user density, especially outside major metros. The Bumble-style swiping can feel transactional when you're sleep-deprived and just want a friend.
Søren's Take
Peanut fills a gap that honestly shouldn't exist — new mothers are among the most socially isolated people in any city, and most friendship apps aren't built for them. The stage-based matching is smart: a mom with a newborn and a mom with a five-year-old have very different lives. The community features (groups, Q&A, resources) elevate it beyond a simple matching app. If you're a new mom feeling isolated, download this before anything else on Søren.
