Better Off vs Peanut
Better Off and Peanut are both friendship apps that help you meet people in real life, but they take different approaches. Here’s how they stack up across pricing, format, cities, and more.
Side-by-side comparison · Updated 2026
At a glance
Pricing
Both Better Off and Peanut fall in the Free price range. Better Off: Free to join; individual experiences vary in cost (some free, others paid). Peanut: Free with optional Peanut Plus subscription ($8.99–$99.99).
Format & matching
Better Off uses groups of Varies, compared to Peanut’s 1:1 and groups, and Better Off relies on algorithm-based matching while Peanut uses interest-based matching.
How they work
Better Off: Download the app and create a free account. Take a quick personality quiz that covers your interests, social style, and what kind of experiences you're into. Browse upcoming experiences in your city — brunches, run clubs, trivia nights, ski weekends, sushi-making classes, museum happy hours, you name it. Register for one, and Better Off's AI matching system assembles a group of people who fit your personality and preferences. You'll get the details before the event. Show up, hang out with your group, and stick around for the after-bar to meet everyone else.
Peanut: Download the app and create a profile with your name, location, and stage of motherhood — whether you're trying to conceive, pregnant, or raising kids of any age. Set your interests and what you're looking for (advice, playdates, local friends, or just someone to talk to). Peanut shows you other women nearby who match your criteria. Swipe to wave, and if you both wave, you're matched and can start chatting. From there, you can join group conversations on specific topics, participate in community Q&A threads, or set up in-person meetups.
What to love
Better Off: AI-powered matching goes beyond basic interests — uses neural networks similar to TikTok's recommendation engine. Massive variety of experiences from casual brunches to multi-day ski trips. Works for solo joiners and existing friend groups alike. Available in 10+ US cities with both iOS and Android apps. Free to create an account and browse — you only pay for individual experiences.
Peanut: Largest dedicated community for mothers — 5 million+ users means you'll actually find people nearby. Stage-based matching (TTC, pregnancy, newborn, toddler, etc.) connects you with women in the same chapter. Swipe mechanic feels natural and low-pressure for introverted new moms. Group discussions and Q&A threads provide real support beyond just friend-matching. Selfie verification and moderation create a genuinely safe space.
Reality check
Better Off: Experience costs vary widely and aren't always transparent upfront. Quality depends on what organizers are running in your city — some markets are thinner than others. The AI matching is a black box — you can't see exactly why you were grouped with certain people. No structured post-event community or follow-up features to maintain connections.
Peanut: Heavily focused on motherhood — not useful if you're looking for general adult friendships. Free tier is limited; seeing who waved at you and premium filters require Peanut Plus. Some areas have sparse user density, especially outside major metros. The Bumble-style swiping can feel transactional when you're sleep-deprived and just want a friend.
Søren's take
On Better Off: Better Off sits in an interesting sweet spot between a social matching app and an event marketplace. The AI matching is the real differentiator — instead of just showing you a list of events and letting you figure it out, they're actually assembling groups of compatible people for each experience. The variety is impressive too: this isn't just another dinner-with-strangers app. The downside is that experience quality and availability depend heavily on your city. If you're in NYC or LA, you'll have plenty of options. Smaller markets might feel sparse. Worth trying if you're the kind of person who'd rather bond over an activity than sit across from a stranger at a bar.
On Peanut: Peanut fills a gap that honestly shouldn't exist — new mothers are among the most socially isolated people in any city, and most friendship apps aren't built for them. The stage-based matching is smart: a mom with a newborn and a mom with a five-year-old have very different lives. The community features (groups, Q&A, resources) elevate it beyond a simple matching app. If you're a new mom feeling isolated, download this before anything else on Søren.
