
An Honest Review of Bumble BFF (2026)
I've used Bumble for dating. So when they launched a separate app just for friendship, I figured I'd give it a shot. Three months, hundreds of swipes, and maybe a dozen real conversations later, I have a clear picture of what Bumble BFF gets right and where it falls short.
How It Works
Bumble BFF is a standalone app (separate from Bumble dating) where you build a profile, add interests, write a bio, and swipe through potential friends nearby. If you both swipe right, you match and can start chatting. In 2025, they added Groups and community features, so now there are interest-based group chats and community spaces too.
Everything is free. No premium tier, no paywalls. That alone makes it unusual in this space.
What I Liked
The user base is massive
This is Bumble BFF's biggest advantage and it's not close. Because of Bumble's brand recognition, the matching pool is enormous. In New York, I never ran out of people to swipe on. In smaller cities, you'll still find people. That density matters because every other friendship app I've tried has the same problem: not enough users. Bumble BFF mostly avoids this.
It's actually free
No subscription tiers. No paywalls. No "pay to see who liked you." Every feature is accessible without spending a dollar. Coming from apps that charge $15-40/month, this is a big deal. You can try it with zero financial commitment and delete it if it doesn't work.
The Groups feature is a good addition
The 2025 relaunch added interest-based Groups, and they help. Pure one-on-one matching for friendship always felt slightly off to me. Groups give you a communal space where multiple people interact, which is closer to how friendships actually form. I joined a running group and a "new to NYC" group, and both had decent activity.
What I Didn't Like
Swiping on friends is still weird
I've said this before and I'll say it again: the swipe mechanic was designed for attraction. Swiping left or right on someone's profile to decide if they're friend material is a strange experience. You're making split-second judgments based on photos and a short bio, which works for dating (where physical attraction matters) but feels arbitrary for friendship. I swiped left on people I probably would have loved meeting at a dinner party.
The flake rate is brutal
Matching is easy. Getting someone to actually meet up is hard. I matched with probably 40 people over three months. Had real back-and-forth conversations with about 15. Suggested a specific plan with 10 of them. Actually met up with 4. That's a 10% conversion rate from match to real-life interaction. Part of that is me, but I heard the same from everyone I talked to about it.
You have to do all the work
Bumble BFF gives you a match. From there, you're on your own. There are no structured events, no facilitator, no one telling you where to be on Saturday at 10 AM. You have to come up with a plan, suggest it, coordinate schedules, and actually follow through. Apps like Timeleft and Mesh handle all of that for you. With Bumble BFF, if you're not naturally proactive about making plans, your matches will just sit there.
Conversations feel like texting strangers
The chat interface is the same as any messaging app. You send "hey! Your bio said you like hiking, me too!" and then there's a volley of polite messages that either builds to something or, more often, slowly dies. It's just texting. There's no shared experience, no context, no reason to meet beyond "we both swiped right." The best friendship apps give you a reason to be in the same room. Bumble BFF gives you a phone number.
Who Should Try Bumble BFF
If you're in a city where the more niche friendship apps don't operate, Bumble BFF is your best option purely because of its user base. It's also great if you're willing to be proactive about turning matches into plans. If your first message is "Let's grab coffee at [specific place] on [specific day]," your experience will be ten times better.
It's less ideal if you want someone to plan your social life for you, if you're tired of the swipe model, or if you struggle with the follow-through required to convert digital matches into real-world friendships.
The Verdict
Bumble BFF is the Honda Civic of friendship apps. It's reliable, it's everywhere, and it does the basics well. The user base is its superpower. The completely free pricing is genuinely generous. But the swipe-match-chat model shows its limits when applied to friendship. Matching with someone and then figuring out how to actually become friends is the hard part, and Bumble BFF doesn't help with that step. I made two real friends through it. That's not nothing. But it took more effort than any structured social app I've used.


