Hank vs Kndrd
Hank and Kndrd are both friendship apps that help you meet people in real life, but they take different approaches. Here’s how they stack up across pricing, format, cities, and more.
Side-by-side comparison · Updated 2026
At a glance
Pricing
Both Hank and Kndrd fall in the Free price range. Hank: Free to download and use. Kndrd: Free to use.
Format & matching
Both apps use groups of Varies, and both use interest-based matching.
How they work
Hank: Download the app and create a profile. Browse a calendar of local activities — walks, coffee meetups, happy hours, museum visits, book clubs, and more — happening near you or online. Join anything that catches your eye. Before the event, you can see other attendees' profiles and start a conversation. After the activity, stay connected with people you clicked with through in-app messaging. If you don't see the right activity, create your own — set the time, place, and description, and Hank handles the rest.
Kndrd: Download the app and apply to join — every member is reviewed by the Kndrd team, so expect a short wait. Once you're in, browse plans that other members have posted: anything from after-work drinks to weekend hikes to concert outings. See something you like? Join it, and a group chat auto-generates so you can coordinate details. You can also create your own plan and let the community come to you. There's also a Forum section where you can ask for recommendations, find roommates, or get advice from the community.
What to love
Hank: Purpose-built for 55+ — no competing with twenty-somethings or navigating dating-app mechanics. Completely free with no subscription walls or premium tiers. Both in-person and online activities mean you can participate regardless of mobility. You can host your own events, not just join existing ones. Clean, simple interface designed for accessibility.
Kndrd: Every member is manually verified, which keeps the community quality high. Plan-based format means you're meeting people while doing something you already enjoy. Group chats auto-generate, removing the awkward 'so should we hang out?' step. The Forum adds a community layer beyond just events. Completely free — no subscriptions, no paywalls.
Reality check
Hank: Currently strongest in the New York area — thinner activity selection in other regions. No Android app yet (planned but not launched). Smaller user base compared to mainstream apps means fewer activities in less populated areas. No algorithmic matching — you browse and choose activities yourself.
Kndrd: Only available in New York City right now — no other cities yet. Approval process means you can't just download and go. Skews heavily toward women — less useful if you're looking for a mixed-gender crowd. Small user base means plan variety depends on who's active.
Søren's take
On Hank: Hank fills a gap that's been wide open for years: most friendship apps are designed for people in their 20s and 30s, and the 55+ crowd has been left to figure it out on their own. Hank's approach is refreshingly straightforward — here's a calendar of things to do, go do them with people your age. No personality quizzes, no swiping, no algorithms. The free pricing is a big deal for this demographic. The main limitation is geographic reach — it started in NYC and is still building out — but if you're 55+ and looking for community, this should be on your phone.
On Kndrd: Kndrd is the kind of app that only works if the community is tight, and right now it is — because they're keeping it small and vetted. The plan-based model is genuinely smart: instead of matching you with a stranger and hoping you figure out something to do, you just join a plan that already sounds fun. The catch is that it's NYC-only and the approval process creates friction. If you're a woman in New York looking for a low-pressure way to find your people, this is worth the wait to get in.
