Hank vs happn

Pricing

Both Hank and happn fall in the Free price range. Hank: Free to download and use. happn: Free with optional Premium subscription (~$25/month).

Format & matching

Hank uses groups of Varies, compared to happn’s 1:1, and Hank relies on interest-based matching while happn uses algorithm-based matching.

How they work

Hank: Download the app and create a profile. Browse a calendar of local activities — walks, coffee meetups, happy hours, museum visits, book clubs, and more — happening near you or online. Join anything that catches your eye. Before the event, you can see other attendees' profiles and start a conversation. After the activity, stay connected with people you clicked with through in-app messaging. If you don't see the right activity, create your own — set the time, place, and description, and Hank handles the rest.

happn: Sign up and create a profile with your photos and interests. As you go about your day, happn uses your location to detect when you cross paths with other users. Those people appear in your timeline with the time and approximate location of the crossing. If someone catches your eye, tap the heart to secretly like them. If they like you back, it's a Crush and you can start chatting. You can also send a SuperCrush to notify someone directly that you're interested.

What to love

Hank: Purpose-built for 55+ — no competing with twenty-somethings or navigating dating-app mechanics. Completely free with no subscription walls or premium tiers. Both in-person and online activities mean you can participate regardless of mobility. You can host your own events, not just join existing ones. Clean, simple interface designed for accessibility.

happn: Location-based crossing makes matches feel more organic and realistic. 140+ million users worldwide gives you a massive pool in most cities. The Crush system means you only chat with mutual matches — no unwanted messages. Free tier is genuinely usable, not just a teaser. Available globally, not locked to specific cities.

Reality check

Hank: Currently strongest in the New York area — thinner activity selection in other regions. No Android app yet (planned but not launched). Smaller user base compared to mainstream apps means fewer activities in less populated areas. No algorithmic matching — you browse and choose activities yourself.

happn: Effectiveness depends heavily on population density — suburban and rural users will struggle. The location tracking can feel creepy if you're not comfortable sharing your movements. Premium pricing is steep for what you get compared to competitors. Profile depth is limited — you're mostly judging by photos and crossing frequency.

Søren's take

On Hank: Hank fills a gap that's been wide open for years: most friendship apps are designed for people in their 20s and 30s, and the 55+ crowd has been left to figure it out on their own. Hank's approach is refreshingly straightforward — here's a calendar of things to do, go do them with people your age. No personality quizzes, no swiping, no algorithms. The free pricing is a big deal for this demographic. The main limitation is geographic reach — it started in NYC and is still building out — but if you're 55+ and looking for community, this should be on your phone.

On happn: Happn's core idea is genuinely clever: instead of showing you thousands of strangers, it surfaces the people you've already been near in real life. In a dense city, this creates a dating pool that actually makes logistical sense. The problem is that the concept works best where it's needed least — in big cities where you already have plenty of dating options. In smaller towns, your timeline might be a ghost town. If you live in a major metro and want to stop matching with people 45 minutes away, happn is worth a download alongside your main dating app.