GoodRec vs Met Through Friends

Pricing

GoodRec is priced at Free (Free for pickup games; league fees vary by sport and location), while Met Through Friends comes in at $$ (Ticketed events; pricing varies by event (sold via external ticketing)).

Format & matching

GoodRec uses groups of Varies, compared to Met Through Friends’s 60+ per event, and GoodRec relies on interest-based matching while Met Through Friends uses manual / self-select matching.

How they work

GoodRec: Download the app and pick your sport — soccer, basketball, volleyball, pickleball, and more. Set your city and browse available pickup games and leagues near you. Each listing shows the time, location, skill level, and how many spots are open. Tap to join a game, and show up ready to play. You can also join organized leagues with scheduled seasons and standings. After playing, rate the experience and connect with other players you met on the field.

Met Through Friends: Head to the Met Through Friends website and browse upcoming events in your city. Each event is a Plus-One Party — the catch is you have to bring a single friend of the orientation you're interested in dating. Buy tickets through their external ticketing platform and show up with your plus-one. The events are held at curated NYC and DC venues with facilitated social activities like backgammon nights and themed mixers. Because everyone was brought by a friend, there's built-in accountability and trust — no random strangers off a dating app.

What to love

GoodRec: 400,000+ players across 50+ cities means you'll actually find games near you. Covers pickup games and organized leagues — casual and competitive in one app. Open to all skill levels and genders, so nobody feels excluded. Free to join pickup games with no subscription required. 1,000+ games happening every week across the network.

Met Through Friends: The bring-a-friend requirement creates built-in social accountability and trust. No app download required — just buy a ticket on the website and show up. Events are curated with real activities, not just standing around a bar. Gender and orientation inclusive, including dedicated Sapphic events. Founded by a certified dating coach who actually understands the NYC singles scene.

Reality check

GoodRec: Sports-focused — not useful if you're looking for non-athletic social activities. Game availability varies significantly by city and sport. League fees can add up depending on the sport and season. No personality matching or social features beyond the games themselves.

Met Through Friends: Currently limited to NYC and DC — not available in most cities. You need a single friend to bring, which is a real barrier if your friends are all coupled up. No matching algorithm — you're on your own once you're at the event. Ticket pricing and event details aren't always transparent on the website.

Søren's take

On GoodRec: GoodRec solves a very specific problem that anyone who's moved to a new city knows well: you want to play pickup basketball or join a soccer league, but you don't know anyone with a team. The app cuts through all of that — browse, tap, show up, play. The 50+ city footprint and 400K user base mean this isn't vaporware; there are actually games happening. The limitation is obvious: if you're not into sports, this isn't for you. But if you are, GoodRec is the fastest path from 'I wish I could play' to actually playing.

On Met Through Friends: Met Through Friends is built on the most time-tested dating strategy there is: getting set up through people you trust. The plus-one requirement is the secret sauce — it filters out randos and creates a room where everyone has at least one person vouching for them. The events themselves are well-produced with real activities beyond just drinking. The limitation is obvious: you need a single friend willing to come with you, and if you're not in NYC or DC, you're out of luck. But if you are, and you've got a wingman ready, this is one of the best alternatives to swiping.