Met Through Friends vs Sitch

Pricing

Both Met Through Friends and Sitch fall in the $$ price range. Met Through Friends: Ticketed events; pricing varies by event (sold via external ticketing). Sitch: Free to apply; paid "Setup" packs required for matches.

Format & matching

Met Through Friends uses groups of 60+ per event, compared to Sitch’s 1:1, and Met Through Friends relies on manual / self-select matching while Sitch uses algorithm-based matching.

How they work

Met Through Friends: Head to the Met Through Friends website and browse upcoming events in your city. Each event is a Plus-One Party — the catch is you have to bring a single friend of the orientation you're interested in dating. Buy tickets through their external ticketing platform and show up with your plus-one. The events are held at curated NYC and DC venues with facilitated social activities like backgammon nights and themed mixers. Because everyone was brought by a friend, there's built-in accountability and trust — no random strangers off a dating app.

Sitch: You start by submitting an application — think of it as a dating profile with teeth. You share your values, interests, hot takes, and deal-breakers. Sitch's AI and a team of human matchmakers review your profile and, if accepted, you buy a pack of "Setups." From there, Sitch sends you curated matches one at a time. If both people say yes, Sitch handles the intro so neither of you is stuck waiting for the other to message first. You can also call their AI matchmaker for real-time dating advice.

What to love

Met Through Friends: The bring-a-friend requirement creates built-in social accountability and trust. No app download required — just buy a ticket on the website and show up. Events are curated with real activities, not just standing around a bar. Gender and orientation inclusive, including dedicated Sapphic events. Founded by a certified dating coach who actually understands the NYC singles scene.

Sitch: Hybrid AI + human matchmaking feels more thoughtful than pure algorithms. The mutual opt-in intro removes the awkward 'who messages first' problem. Application process filters for people who are actually serious. AI matchmaker phone call feature is a genuinely novel touch. No endless swiping — matches come to you.

Reality check

Met Through Friends: Currently limited to NYC and DC — not available in most cities. You need a single friend to bring, which is a real barrier if your friends are all coupled up. No matching algorithm — you're on your own once you're at the event. Ticket pricing and event details aren't always transparent on the website.

Sitch: NYC-focused, so most people can't use it yet. Waitlist and approval process means you might wait a while to get in. Paid Setup packs on top of the application feels like a lot of friction. iOS only — no Android or web app.

Søren's take

On Met Through Friends: Met Through Friends is built on the most time-tested dating strategy there is: getting set up through people you trust. The plus-one requirement is the secret sauce — it filters out randos and creates a room where everyone has at least one person vouching for them. The events themselves are well-produced with real activities beyond just drinking. The limitation is obvious: you need a single friend willing to come with you, and if you're not in NYC or DC, you're out of luck. But if you are, and you've got a wingman ready, this is one of the best alternatives to swiping.

On Sitch: Sitch is betting that the future of dating isn't more swiping — it's less. The hybrid AI-plus-human matchmaking model is compelling because it adds a layer of curation that pure algorithms can't replicate. The application process and paid Setup packs create real friction, but that's kind of the point: it filters for people who are genuinely invested in finding someone. If you're in New York and tired of the dating app hamster wheel, Sitch is worth the waitlist. Just know that you're paying for the privilege of being set up, and the app is still early enough that the match pool may be limited.