Meet5 vs Sitch

Pricing

Meet5 is priced at Free (Free for all activity features; Premium subscription for private chat, priority access, and extras), while Sitch comes in at $$ (Free to apply; paid "Setup" packs required for matches).

Format & matching

Meet5 uses groups of 5+ per activity, compared to Sitch’s 1:1, and Meet5 relies on interest-based matching while Sitch uses algorithm-based matching.

How they work

Meet5: Download the app, create a profile, and select your region to see available activities near you. Browse events by category — hiking, dining, parties, sports, culture, games — or use filters to narrow it down. Join an activity that interests you, and you'll be added to a group chat with other participants so you can coordinate before the event. You can also create your own activities and invite others. After the event, mark people you clicked with as favorites and invite them to future activities. The more you attend, the more tailored your invitations become.

Sitch: You start by submitting an application — think of it as a dating profile with teeth. You share your values, interests, hot takes, and deal-breakers. Sitch's AI and a team of human matchmakers review your profile and, if accepted, you buy a pack of "Setups." From there, Sitch sends you curated matches one at a time. If both people say yes, Sitch handles the intro so neither of you is stuck waiting for the other to message first. You can also call their AI matchmaker for real-time dating advice.

What to love

Meet5: Activity-based format takes the pressure off — you're there to do something, not just make small talk. Massive user base (2.5 million+) means plenty of events to choose from in supported regions. All core activity features are completely free. User verification process keeps the community legitimate. You can create your own events, not just join existing ones.

Sitch: Hybrid AI + human matchmaking feels more thoughtful than pure algorithms. The mutual opt-in intro removes the awkward 'who messages first' problem. Application process filters for people who are actually serious. AI matchmaker phone call feature is a genuinely novel touch. No endless swiping — matches come to you.

Reality check

Meet5: User density in the US is still growing compared to established European cities. Premium features (private chat, seeing who favorited you) require a subscription. Event quality depends entirely on who creates them — no curation or facilitation. The app interface can feel cluttered compared to more polished competitors.

Sitch: NYC-focused, so most people can't use it yet. Waitlist and approval process means you might wait a while to get in. Paid Setup packs on top of the application feels like a lot of friction. iOS only — no Android or web app.

Søren's take

On Meet5: Meet5 takes the opposite approach from algorithm-matched dinner apps: instead of assigning you a table, it gives you a menu of activities and lets you choose your own adventure. That freedom is both its strength and weakness — you'll find everything from hiking trips to board game nights, but the quality is entirely user-generated. The 2.5 million users and half a million completed activities prove the model works. Now that it's available in the US alongside its established European base, it's one of the best free ways to meet people through shared interests wherever you are.

On Sitch: Sitch is betting that the future of dating isn't more swiping — it's less. The hybrid AI-plus-human matchmaking model is compelling because it adds a layer of curation that pure algorithms can't replicate. The application process and paid Setup packs create real friction, but that's kind of the point: it filters for people who are genuinely invested in finding someone. If you're in New York and tired of the dating app hamster wheel, Sitch is worth the waitlist. Just know that you're paying for the privilege of being set up, and the app is still early enough that the match pool may be limited.