Pie vs Sitch

Pricing

Pie is priced at Free (Completely free — no subscriptions, no paywalls), while Sitch comes in at $$ (Free to apply; paid "Setup" packs required for matches).

Format & matching

Pie uses groups of Varies, compared to Sitch’s 1:1, and Pie relies on interest-based matching while Sitch uses algorithm-based matching.

How they work

Pie: Download the app and set your city — Pie is live in Chicago, Austin, Bay Area, and Columbus. Your home feed shows free, in-person events happening nearby, filtered by your interests. Tap an event to see who's going, RSVP, and add it to your calendar. After you attend, Pie starts learning who you vibe with and surfaces a personalized feed of friend and friend-of-friend activity. You can also host your own events — keep them private or broadcast them to the whole network using 'snowball mode.' There's a built-in chat for coordinating plans and sharing photos after the fact.

Sitch: You start by submitting an application — think of it as a dating profile with teeth. You share your values, interests, hot takes, and deal-breakers. Sitch's AI and a team of human matchmakers review your profile and, if accepted, you buy a pack of "Setups." From there, Sitch sends you curated matches one at a time. If both people say yes, Sitch handles the intro so neither of you is stuck waiting for the other to message first. You can also call their AI matchmaker for real-time dating advice.

What to love

Pie: Completely free — no premium tier, no paywalls, no catch. Event-first model means you're bonding over shared experiences, not forced small talk. The friend-of-friend feed creates organic social discovery that feels natural. You can host your own events, giving you control over the vibe. 4.7-star rating with 1,000+ reviews suggests people genuinely love using it.

Sitch: Hybrid AI + human matchmaking feels more thoughtful than pure algorithms. The mutual opt-in intro removes the awkward 'who messages first' problem. Application process filters for people who are actually serious. AI matchmaker phone call feature is a genuinely novel touch. No endless swiping — matches come to you.

Reality check

Pie: Only available in four cities — if you're not in Chicago, Austin, Bay Area, or Columbus, you're out of luck. No algorithmic matching — you have to browse and choose events yourself. Event quality depends on what's happening in your area on any given week. As a PBC (Public Benefit Corporation), long-term monetization strategy is unclear.

Sitch: NYC-focused, so most people can't use it yet. Waitlist and approval process means you might wait a while to get in. Paid Setup packs on top of the application feels like a lot of friction. iOS only — no Android or web app.

Søren's take

On Pie: Pie is refreshingly simple in a space full of personality quizzes and subscription paywalls. The pitch is: here are free events near you, go to them, meet people. That's it. No matching algorithm, no premium tier, no gamification. The friend-of-friend social graph that builds over time is genuinely clever — it mimics how real-life social circles actually form. The catch is geographic: four cities is a small footprint, and if yours isn't on the list, you're waiting. But if you're in Chicago, Austin, or the Bay Area and want a zero-cost way to build a social life, Pie is the obvious first download.

On Sitch: Sitch is betting that the future of dating isn't more swiping — it's less. The hybrid AI-plus-human matchmaking model is compelling because it adds a layer of curation that pure algorithms can't replicate. The application process and paid Setup packs create real friction, but that's kind of the point: it filters for people who are genuinely invested in finding someone. If you're in New York and tired of the dating app hamster wheel, Sitch is worth the waitlist. Just know that you're paying for the privilege of being set up, and the app is still early enough that the match pool may be limited.